Most people think exhaustion is a sign they’re not sleeping enough. But the truth is quieter and more frustrating: plenty of people sleep 7–9 hours and still wake up foggy, heavy, and unrefreshed.
If that’s happening to you, it’s rarely about the hours.
It’s usually about sleep quality, nervous system overload, and small habits that interfere with proper rest without you realising.
Here’s what actually gets in the way and how to start feeling rested again.
1. Your Nervous System Never Fully Switches Off
You can be lying in bed for eight hours… while your nervous system stays in “protective mode.”
Chronic stress, burnout, and mental load keep the body in a semi-alert state.
You’re asleep on paper, but physiologically, you’re not dropping into the deeper stages of sleep that restore your brain and hormones.
Signs this might be you:
- waking up tense or clenched
- shallow breathing during sleep
- waking up around 3–4am
- feeling “wired but tired” before bed
Simple reset:
Create a small wind-down ritual that helps your system shift gears, and this doesn't have to be anything elaborate.
A warm drink, dimmer lights, a few stretches, and no scrolling in the last 10 minutes before bed can be enough to soften your internal pace.
Unwind- our no added sugar cacao blend- helps here because it contains ashwagandha + magnesium (and other calming herbs), which work with your nervous system rather than against it.
2. You’re Not Reaching Deep Sleep Consistently
Deep sleep is where the real repair happens: memory, hormones, tissue recovery, emotional processing.
Most adults aren’t getting enough, and it’s not always obvious.
Common disruptors:
- late caffeine
- working late into the night
- scrolling right before bed
- eating very late
- sleeping in a warm room
- inconsistent bedtimes
Even one of these is enough to fragment sleep.
Practical fix:
Choose one thing to clean up (you don't have to pick all of them!).
Most people see a noticeable difference simply by reducing screens in the last 30 minutes or making their bedroom slightly colder.
Consistency always beats perfection.
3. Evening Cortisol Spikes
If you wake up tired, especially with brain fog, evening cortisol might be the culprit.
This can happen when:
- you’re stressed in the evening
- you’re working late
- your mind is overstimulated
- you exercise intensely too close to bedtime
Cortisol isn’t “bad,” but when it peaks late, it disrupts melatonin and pulls you out of deeper sleep cycles.
Small shift:
Switch stimulating activities earlier.
Give your mind a gentler landing at night, which includes soft (and red) lighting, slower conversations, relaxing music, reading, journaling.
Your hormones respond to atmosphere more than people realise.
4. Blood Sugar Dips Overnight
A hidden but common reason for restless sleep.
If your last meal is too light, too carb-heavy, or too early, your blood sugar may dip during the night causing adrenaline spikes and poor sleep depth.
Symptoms:
- restless sleep
- waking up hungry
- waking up anxious
- vivid dreams
What helps:
A balanced evening meal (protein + healthy fats + fibre).
A light protein snack 1–2 hours before bed can also stabilise things.
5. You’re Sleeping, but Not Recovering
This shows up when your body is depleted from nutrient deficiencies, chronic stress, burnout, or nervous-system fatigue.
Magnesium, B-vitamins, iron, and omega-3s all play a role in sleep quality and morning energy.
A realistic approach:
Don’t jump to supplements first.
Start by reducing stress before bed, eating consistently, and creating a calmer environment.
If fatigue continues, blood work can be helpful for clarity.
6. Your Mind Is Overloaded Before Bed
This is one of the biggest modern sleep disruptors, especially for people juggling work, life, relationships, and internal pressure.
You may fall asleep fast because you’re exhausted, but your mind is still processing.
Clues:
- racing thoughts when you wake up
- waking up with dread
- vivid dreams
- clenched jaw
What helps:
A “mental offload” such as a simple note on your phone or notebook listing tomorrow’s tasks.
It signals safety.
Your brain rests better when it feels there’s structure for the next day.
7. Your Evening Supplement Routine Doesn’t Match Your Body’s Needs
Many people take supplements that stimulate when they’re trying to wind down, or take calming support too late.
For example:
- Ginkgo and lion’s mane are great for daytime focus, not evenings.
- Ashwagandha supports relaxation, but consistency matters more than timing (you need to take this everyday to really see a difference!).
- Magnesium can deepen sleep, but certain forms work differently.
What works well for most people:
Caffeine-free evening support + magnesium + calming adaptogens.
This combination helps the nervous system transition into deeper sleep stages.
That’s the logic behind Unwind: grounding herbs and minerals that help your body shift into a calmer state before bed.
A Simple Night Routine That Actually Improves Sleep Quality
You don’t need a 20-step ritual.
You just need something that signals “slow down.”
Try this 10–15 minute flow:
- Dim lights
- Light stretch or breathwork (2 min)
- Make a warm drink (Unwind, herbal tea, or magnesium)
- Put your phone away
- Read or journal for 5 minutes
- Get into bed at roughly the same time each night
This alone can shift your sleep quality in a week.
Final Thoughts: Better Sleep Starts With Small, Consistent Choices
You don’t need to overhaul your nights.
You just need to support your nervous system, stabilise the basics, and build simple cues that help your body settle.
When sleep quality improves, everything feels lighter including focus, mood, energy, resilience.
It becomes easier to show up for your day without burning through your reserves.
Sweet dreams.
